Djuna Barnes, the original lipstick lesbian. Her parents were bohemians and her grandmother was friends with Oscar Wilde, and she wound up being part of the Paris expat community of the 1920s. Here's a short story about the eye of the beholder.
To get things started, here's a fashion-ish blog I love. It's called Eat Tarantula. It's not really about how to dress and in fact isn't particularly practical for my needs, but it's a smart girl with a unique sensibility posting very pretty things that are also interesting.